I wasn't going to put up any posts until next week, but since I decided to stay in tonight, I guess I can put up one. One thing that I've noticed about readers, and every other guy, is that we all have our shortcomings. Whether it is being short, not having the money for expensive clothes, or living with a parent, we have at least one thing that we don't like to tell women. Why not? To be honest, we all have things that we are insecure about and are afraid that a chubby girl will not like us because of.

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So how do you handle an insecurity? Do you try explaining yourself? Do you try to cover for it? No and no. I'll tell you the best thing that you can do: be quiet and don't even acknowledge it (to her). Trying to explain it or make excuses for it will not work in your favor. You will only lose in that situation because it will make you look insecure and extra worried about what the busty woman will think of you.

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Even if a girl brings it up or makes a comment about it, then you should just keep quiet or immediately brush it off like it's not a big deal. For example, let's say that you met a girl online, and now that you're finally face to face she makes a comment about thinking that you'd be taller. What should you respond with? You should just ignore it and keep talking as if she never said it. Should you wear shoes with a 4 inch heel then? No, because it'll only make you look like a clown, just like the guy that tries to puff out his chest or suck in his stomach or act like a hardcore gangster. Should you verbally retaliate then? I don't see how you are going to keep her interested in you if you do that.

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Letting it go and ignoring it will make you come off as a very secure guy that doesn't sweat the small stuff. BBW find that to be attractive, and your non-reactiveness to it may even cause women to overlook said fault or shortcoming as if it doesn't even exist. You can only win by not reacting and trying to explain away or cover-up a fault. Is there a point when you should acknowledge a fault? Yes, but only when a girl keeps pressing you about it, at which point you should put the pressure on her away from you and ask her if it's a big deal for her. This makes her look like she is being immature and paying too much attention to something that shouldn't be a big deal. If it's something more serious, then you can tell her what you are doing to fix the problem, such as being unemployed but looking for work.

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If you have a fault that you'd eventually like to fix, then there is no need for you to mention it to her. Just quietly fix it and move on. I'm getting tired, so It's time to wrap this up. If you have a little penis? Don't turn it into a big deal by acknowledging it and trying to explain it away to her. If you drive a shitty car? Don't turn it into a big deal by acknowledging it and trying to explain it away to her. And if you don't have any money to take her on a nicer date? Don't turn it into a big deal by acknowledging it and trying to explain it away to her. Treat the issue as if it doesn't even exist.

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